The Gift Given Robin Gates in Thailand

    Robin Gates is one of the Wenatchee women stranded in Bangkok, Thailand when protestors closed the airport. Willing to help, she was handed Cho, an incredible gift.
    Sunday, November 30 she felt safe walking alone to an English Protestant worship service at nearby Christ Church. At coffee hour she heard about volunteers who were was bussed every Tuesday to the campus of the Pakkred Orphanage run by the Christian Care Foundation of Thailand. The church had supplied equipment for abandoned children with cerebral palsy, built a facility for their perceptual-motor development and established playgrounds.
    Robin wrote, “I didn’t know what they did but my motto is just show up.”
    Even though she has a 12-year-old grandson with handicaps, she wrote, “I was stunned to see a very large bare room full of approximately 50 children lying on pallets on the floor, side by side, on their backs, none of them with language or motor skills.  The room was neat and clean with aides seeing to the children.  One day a week, 14 of the children would be worked with and loved.  The regular volunteers had the same child each week.
    “I was given Cho. I held a twelve-year-old boy, about 40 pounds, in my arms.  His legs and arms dangled. His head was flat and misshapen, as was each child’s from lying on their backs all the time.  He smiled at me and his big brown eyes shone. He was so happy to be held and to be going to the activity room.  
    “We took them in strollers for a ride to the activity building.  There we stretched their arms and legs on bean bags and played with a variety of objects to stimulate their muscles.  Then we put them in special chairs each with a little table.  Cho and I played with soft blocks that he somehow got to fall on the floor and laughed because I had to pick them up.  At lunch a volunteer gave me orange sections to feed him, which were really extra. He loved them.  At the end we played games with other boys in their strollers.  Like all boys they loved racing.  
    “We shared our lives that day, Cho and I, with love and touch, smiles and eye contact. This young, bright Thai boy who will never walk, or talk, or feed himself, or leave his matt on the floor, gave me the greatest gift of pure joy.  My prayer is that another volunteer will come to take him out every Tuesday.  I cannot tell this story without tears.”
    I could not write this without tears.
    My wife Karen visited an orphanage in Guatemala. Afterward she said it was a gift and I should have gone. Now I get it. 
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